Saturday, July 25, 2009

How do i be more well liked?

ok when i first moved here everyone liked me no matter what. guys loved me and girls liked me and i was myself which was a really good feeling. i had my one group of friends and whatnot and my group of guys that drooled over me and then everyone found out i was a cutter which completely ruined me. instead of being "that hot girl" i was "that emo slut" and i slowly lost all my guys and all the girls outside of my group of friends quit likeing me. but now i have to deal with people calling me names in the hallway and trying to start crap with me, and i havent changed cept since then i quit and ive always worn arker colored clothes and i have mid-back length black hair with carmal highlights and im 5'2 and about 105 lbs. should i like change my style a littlebit or what. you can check some pics of me on my myspace (myspace.com/ashleysemo) but dont worry im not a lesbian b/cthats the latest rumor about me and ppl have been getting on my myspace and deleting friends and saying im a lebian



How do i be more well liked?

ok u have friends ur kool and u have some kool guys that hang around u so who gives wat other people think i go to your skool and u no im ur friend ashley ur kool and u no it so chillax u got hommies and they got ur bac but u should get jayme checked shes stright trippin



How do i be more well liked?

I used to dress in dark clothes, and be really quiet, and my confidence went down with it. People called me 'goth' and names like that. Then I started wearing more 'normal' clothes, my confidence shot up, and now people accept me more... But keep your individuality, by that you don't have to express yourself from the way you dress, its how you act.



How do i be more well liked?

You are cute. I think you answered your own question though. You said "when i first moved here everyone liked me no matter what. guys loved me and girls liked me and i was myself which was a really good feeling". You were yourself and that is what drew people to you. I'm sure you had self-confidence and people could see that. Don't change for other people, change for yourself if that's something you want to do. You are cute and will go a long way.



How do i be more well liked?

Alright, you seem like an awesome person. I mean come on, people are dumb and if you are still in highschool, you are in a worse situation. Kids in school are stupid idiots and cows that want the greenest of grass. You seem level headed and haven't done anything crazy yet. I am sorry, poeple are crual and unusual but don't let it get to you. They can make your life hell and if that is the case then you don't want those people as your friends. I am truly sorry, i never went through that situation cause I never cared about what other people thought... IF it comes down to this, start throwing punches.



How do i be more well liked?

I'm sorry you are going through all this. I have only one friend who is a cutter. She finished H.S. on line. She had one boyfriend who ended up doing the same thing. I know she got counseling. Today she and her boyfriend are married with a baby. High School just caused her too much stress. Her mother wanted to be certain her daughter didn't harm herself more. She allowed her to be home schooled. I don't know what your answer will be. I suggest you get a counselor to talk to you. Maybe he or she can figure out a way for you to be happier.



How do i be more well liked?

i think that the girls who hanged out with you were w/you because they saw all the guys that were around you and Hey come on you cut so what EVERY BODY has a secret and don't know how it fells like because i was a cutter and a heavy one at that and people judgede me i just told them **** off you have a secret to whe just don't know it but friends come and go .



ABOUT THE CHANGE:Dress how ever you fell comterbel some times i fell like **** because i don't dress how i'm comterbel and thats just not me LAST THING remember be your selph and people will see the real you you will have new friends

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