Getting a guy to want me? PLZ HELP!?

Personality-wise I am:

SOMETIMES-

~sad

~depressing

~pessimistic

~desperate

~needy

~hate myself

OTHER TIMES-

~bubbley

~fun

~outgoing

~loving

~funny

~confident

Physically:

~5'5

~fat

~I think, I'm ugly but most people call me pretty/beautiful/gorgeous

~ long brown hair w/ reddish tint and dark brown/black streaks that reaches to the small of my back

~green eyes

Style:

~totaly girly girl

~fave shoes are my black ballet flats

~I dress to make my body look best

~I wear low-cut shirts

~I usually wear jeans

I've liked my guy friend for like 1.5 yrs now and he doesn't like me and I don't think he ever will. Should I give up on him or go after him? It would be hard to give up on him, though. If I should go after him how should I do that?

Otherwise there are plenty of guys in the school I'd be friends w/ benefits w/, but I don't really talk to any of them. How do I get them to want to be w/ me?

Getting a guy to want me? PLZ HELP!?

Sadly, enough as much as you want people to want you or even like you they are not going to if they don't want to or like you like that. Also for the fact too, if you are negative towards life or may not be happy with your life or the way life is treating you and you are depressed, sad, hate yourself then no one wants to be around people like that if you don't like yourself then no one else will. In my experience being happy with yourself, positive and loving life you have more people around you and wanting to know you.

I'm not saying that you have to be happy, positive or bubbly 24/7 as everybody gets sad or depressed at some point in their life. Even those people who you think are the most happiest get sad or depressed and sometimes they don't even show it. But what I'm saying is that just enjoy life and have fun and never think that your ugly as beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what makes a beautiful person is their attitude, their personality, the way they carry themselves and the way they treat others. Yes a person may be blessed with what you call looks but that is superficial as they may be a very nasty person or shallow person and that is what you call ugly.

For liking your friend of 1.5yrs I would just leave it alone as if you know he is not interested in you that way then he is not interested and if you try anything it may push him away. Wouldn't you rather have a great friend then having no friend at all. It won't be giving up on him as you will have a great friend and also who knows what the future holds, things may change.

Just be yourself but you have to be happy and confident with who you are as a person and be positive in life. Just enjoy life and the many things it will bring for you. But don't go chasing things as the more you chase the more far away they will get. Just take things easy relax and have fun and I'm sure these things will work out and come your way.

Getting a guy to want me? PLZ HELP!?

Most guys like girls that are confident and caring. Be yourself and dont worry what other people think.